This Changes Everything

“A scary, funny, moving and inspiring story from a man who deserves cancer less than almost anyone I know.”

“Tyler Merritt approaches cancer, a subject that is scary for all of us to talk about, with grace and humor, just like everything in his life. This whole book feels like one long, wonderful conversation with a friend. Sometimes you have to laugh, and sometimes you have to get real. That’s life. This Changes Everything gives me all the feels. We’re lucky to have Tyler’s voice in the world!”

“How Tyler has gone and made a book about living with Cancer so funny I’m not sure I’ll ever really understand. What I do know is that I’m better for leaning into his story. Laced with deep heartfelt moments and stories that can only be told by a man who has become comfortable in his own skin, I’d recommend This Changes Everything to anyone who needs a reminder at how beautiful this life truly is.”

“Tyler Merritt is a national treasure, and This Changes Everything is a thoughtful, beautiful and heartwarming tribute to this wonderful thing called life -- as only Tyler can tell it.”

“Tyler takes us on an unimaginable journey through his cancer diagnosis, treatment, and life afterwards, with sage wisdom and unparalleled humor. We are reminded of what truly matters in life - forgiveness, gratitude, and the true meaning of optimism. Through his raw and honest storytelling, Tyler gives us a new perspective on our own struggles and triumphs. Prepare to be moved, and forever changed by Tyler's powerful story.”

“First of all I recognized all of the musical theater references Tyler that thought he was so sneakily throwing at me! I may have even caught myself singing along to a few. Listen, I just didn’t want This Changes Everything to end. It’s filled with so much love for us the reader. Somehow even after walking through Cancer Tyler’s outlook on this complex life remains uplifting and awe inspiring. Serious at some points and incredibly funny in others, I cannot wait for you all to read this book.”

“A heart-felt, laugh-out loud book about nearly dying and what it means to really live.”

“I accidentally met Tyler in NYC four days after he found out this surgery was inevitable and fell in love with him because who could help it? I’ve only known this Tyler, the one in these exact pages, and he is as marvelous as you think. This Changes Everything is a love letter to life. This book will help you understand why I introduced him to my kids and gave him my heart.”

“Tyler Merritt is an artist who can show you a picture break it back down to a molecular level and show you layer by layer how he became the work of art that he is today. And facing his own fears then boldly regurgitating them for us in this manuscript Tyler puts words to the internal battles and shows us that reckoning with our own mortality can often increase our own vitality.”

“My favourite thing about Tyler and his writing, is how he dances with joy and humour in the fires of discomfort. This line sums up the path we take together in his latest book — “I think most of us dramatically underestimate not only what we could go through, but what we have been through.” And yet, Tyler’s writing reminds me that God is play, love and humour, as much as God is also within these difficult experiences of pain and initiation. And that no matter what we are walking through, we always have the option to do it with humour and laughter. He’s taught me that. He’s also taught me, as a writer, how to bring my own truth and voice into the words I share. To bring all of me — even the musical theater part of me that my dad thought was annoying when I was a kid.  In fact, I think my favorite excerpt from the book might be when Tyler compares Scottie Pippen to Audra MacDonald and gently acknowledges “I know that you don’t care about Sports Ball, my Musical Theater people.”  Yup. That’s the truth. (And I deeply needed that reference, so thank you very much for taking care of all your fellow musical theatre nerds, Tyler!!) Tyler Merritt is a national treasure and I’m so grateful that he finds the time, courage and joyful abundance in sharing himself and his writing with the world. Because his work makes me even happier to be part of it.”

“Tyler Merritt is doing the impossible job of investigating and exploring America, using his life as the roadmap. His good humor and vulnerability make it a bouncy and joyous—but also a tender and honest—ride.”

“This Changes Everything is a profoundly moving and unexpectedly humorous exploration of life’s deepest challenges, written by a man who has faced more than his share. Tyler Merritt invites us into his world with raw honesty as he navigates the emotional landscape of his life. His reflections on living with terminal illness—where isolation, fear, and anger threaten to overwhelm—are nothing short of inspiring. Tyler’s resolve to let go of unforgiveness and bitterness is a powerful lesson for us all. In a world where dying may seem easier than the courage it takes to keep living, Tyler reminds us of the transformative power of love, resilience, and grace. This is a book that will change how you see life, urging you to make the most of each day.”

“This Changes Everything may be the first book I read in one sitting. It was captivatingly human. It is Tyler's story, but it is also all of ours. Finding a way to live, to truly live, in the midst of pain, sorrow and grief, is something Tyler demonstrates through every page. Unlike other books that border on denial and toxic positivity, Tyler doesn't look away from the fear that tries to stop us. This book is a dance between joy and fear. Happiness and grief. Laughter and lament. Pain and relief. All exist and are part of us. But Tyler shows us how we can let love lead and keep moving no matter what dance partner life throws our way."

“The whole time I was reading This Changes Everything I couldn’t help but wonder why Tyler Merritt had never taken me out for dinner. I don’t normally like to make things all about me, but honestly, what is he thinking not getting to know me? We would be best friends. But that’s really the magic of who Tyler is, isn’t it? He barges in and makes himself comfortable in your world, in your head, and in your heart. You see yourself hanging out with him, crying with him, rejoicing with him. I hope this book changes everything (see what I did there?) for anyone who has received the same devastating news. I have no doubt it will. Tyler, I think I’m in love.”

"Merritt draws out the humor and pathos of his illness with impressive self- awareness... This entertains and inspires."