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Tired of Apologizing for a Church I Don't Belong To

Spirituality without Stereotypes, Religion without Ranting

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By Lillian Daniel

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When Lillian Daniel apologized to a total stranger for every bad thing that had ever been said or done in the name of Christianity, he was surprised that she was responsible for all that. “The Inquisition? Don’t even raise it, I’m way ahead of you. I was mad about it before you even heard of it, that’s how open-minded I am. Salem witch trials? I know! So embarrassing. Can I hang out with you anyway? You’re too kind.” “Religion is responsible for all the wars in history,” they would say, and I’d respond, “You’re so right. Don’t forget imperialism, capitalism, and racism. Religion invented those problems too. You can tell that because religious people can be found at all their meetings.”

In this book, Daniel argues that it’s time for Christians to stop apologizing and realize that how we talk about Christian community matters. With disarming candor laced with just the right amount of humor, Daniel urges open-minded Christians to explore ways to talk about their faith journeys that are reasonable, rigorous, and real.After the publication of the much talked about When Spiritual But Not Religious Is Not Enough: Seeing God In Surprising Places, Even the Church, Lillian Daniel heard from many SBNRs as well as practicing Christians. It was the Christians who scolded her for her forthright, unapologetic stand as one who believes that religious community matters.The Christians ranted that Christians, by definition, tend to be judgmental, condemning hypocrites, which is why people hate them. By saying religion matters, she was judging those who disagree, they said, proving the stereotype of Christians. Better to acknowledge all that’s wrong with Christianity and its history, then apologize.In this book, Daniel shows why it matters how we talk about Christian community while urging open-minded Christians to learn better ways to talk about their faith.

On Sale
Sep 19, 2017
Page Count
224 pages
Publisher
FaithWords
ISBN-13
9781455595884

Lillian Daniel

About the Author

Featured in the New York Times and on PBS, Lillian Daniel’s writing  is described as “biting, hilarious, pitch perfect, tender, and often stunningly beautiful.”

Her book Tired of Apologizing for a Church I Don’t Belong To is generating international conversation about the changing religious landscape, including the rising number of “Nones,” people who self-identify has having no religious preference.  It continues the themes of her 2013 book When “Spiritual But Not Religious” Is Not Enough.

She has taught preaching at a number of schools, including Chicago Theological Seminary, the University of Chicago Divinity School and at her alma mater, Yale Divinity School, but don’t hold that against her. She can’t be held responsible for everyone who falls asleep in church.

Lillian Daniel has spoken at the National Cathedral, Duke Chapel, Kings College, London and Queen’s College, Ontario, but on Sundays you can find her preaching at First Congregational Church in Dubuque, Iowa.

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